Concerned Someone May Be Suicidal?
If you're concerned that someone you care about may be thinking about suicide, this tool can help you decide what to do next.
It does not diagnose, score or predict suicide risk. You do not need to be certain before seeking help.
Could this be an emergency right now?
This includes an attempt already underway, an overdose, serious self-harm, being about to act, or any situation where you believe their life may be in immediate danger.
Can you speak with them right now?
This helps determine whether the next step is a direct conversation or getting help when you cannot reach them.
Do you know that they are thinking about suicide?
If you do not know, the safest next step is usually to ask directly rather than trying to work it out from warning signs alone.
Ask them directly
You can be calm and plain. Asking about suicide does not put the idea in someone's head.
“I've noticed you haven't seemed like yourself lately and I'm worried about you. Have you been thinking about suicide?”
What happens when you ask?
Is there anything suggesting they may act on these thoughts soon?
For example, they have described an intention, plan or timeframe; have access to something they could use to seriously harm themselves; have recently attempted suicide; are severely intoxicated or agitated; or say they cannot keep themselves safe.
Australia · support available 24/7
Emergency: 000
Lifeline: 13 11 14
Suicide Call Back Service: 1300 659 467
13YARN: 13 92 76
Kids Helpline: 1800 55 1800
General information only. This tool cannot determine whether a person is safe and is not a substitute for assessment by an appropriate health professional or emergency service. If your concern increases, seek help even if an earlier answer seemed reassuring.